LONG BUT WORTH READING
WHEN PARENTS FALL SHORT – HOW LACK OF GUIDANCE AFFECTS TODAY’S YOUTH
There was a time when parents raised strong individuals. Now, they often grow dependent.
A time when children respected their parents’ guidance. Now, they sometimes challenge them online.
A time when a stern look from your mother could change your behavior. Now, some kids seek attention online.
The world isn’t more negative, but parenting styles have changed.
Kids often lack boundaries. There’s a need for respect and guidance.
And the result?
A generation that sometimes values the wrong things.
THOUGHT MESSAGE
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WITHOUT GUIDANCE, CHILDREN MAY STRUGGLE WITH SELF-CONTROL
A child who never hears “NO” at home might struggle later in life.
A boy who isn’t taught to manage desires might face challenges with habits.
A girl not taught self-respect might seek attention in unhealthy ways.
A child who isn’t corrected for being untruthful may grow up struggling to be honest.
If parents don’t guide their children, life might present tougher lessons.
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WHEN FAMILY VALUES DECLINE, CHALLENGES FOLLOW
What happened to parenting?
Mothers once guided daughters towards dignity. Now, some focus on material gains.
Fathers once taught responsibility. Now, some are absent or less involved.
Children learn more from online platforms, affecting their beliefs and direction.
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OVERINDULGING CHILDREN CAN HINDER THEIR GROWTH
Giving in to every demand may not be beneficial.
A child who never works for anything may grow entitled.
A child without discipline might think actions have no consequences.
Now, we often see adults struggle with rejection, failure, and life’s challenges.
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BALANCING FRIENDSHIP AND LEADERSHIP IN PARENTING IS KEY
Many parents today aim to be friends rather than leaders.
Instead of correcting behavior, they may allow too much freedom.
Instead of encouraging effort, they might give too easily.
Instead of enforcing boundaries, they might avoid conflict.
And this can lead to a generation that struggles with resilience and overcoming challenges.
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TODAY’S GENERATION SEEKS PLEASURE BUT SHIES AWAY FROM DUTIES
Discipline used to be a part of growing up.
Now, when parents try to guide, some children feel misunderstood.
Teachers find it challenging to enforce rules due to restrictions.
Young people desire freedom yet often avoid taking responsibility.
There’s a desire for enjoyment, but effort is sometimes lacking.
This results in:
Many seeking shortcuts rather than working hard.
Social media influencing some to seek attention in unhealthy ways.
Families facing challenges because foundational skills aren’t taught.
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LACK OF GUIDANCE MAY AFFECT FUTURE OPPORTUNITIES
Some young men find it hard to resist tempting distractions due to insufficient self-control.
Some young women may seek validation online without understanding their worth.
Many face financial and emotional struggles because resilience wasn’t instilled.
The root cause isn’t negativity, but a need for improved guidance.
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IMPROVED PARENTING CAN SHAPE A BETTER FUTURE
Without change, the next generation might: – Struggle with core values. – Find it difficult to develop a strong work ethic. – Lose sight of important beliefs.
Challenges may arise—not from external forces, but from a lack of early guidance.
KEY MESSAGE: If you’re a parent, consider offering consistent guidance. If you’re young, practice self-discipline.
The world can be challenging for those not prepared through guidance.
Let’s nurture resilience and strength.
Feel free to share this with family and friends, especially those raising young ones. May we all find the strength to guide the next generation.
